3 things to spice up your sexting game and make sure you get a response

So...If you have trouble putting your thoughts into words, or you're just looking for something new, these tips could be the answer to spice up your love life. With the right 'dirty' frame of mind, you and your partner can have lots of 'fun' 😏 ... without leaving the comfort of your living room, shaving your legs or taking off your flannel pj's. Woo! Plus, there is always the option for actual sex later! I mean its a win all round!

According to Engadget, research revealed that messages involving imagery were 30 percent more likely to receive replies, compared to other messages... and no we're not talking the topless selfies you thought of sending. They also found that conversations involving visual representations were typically two times longer than those without! This can be great if you've met your special someone... and you want to tell them about the fun times you're going to have later 😜 ... Or if that tinder guy is just really hot and you just cant help yourself... 😜

Now to the sexting, there are a few rules out there I agree with and a few rules I don't....and of course rules are made to be broken! And I've definitely broken my own rules from time to time - but I am a sexpert, I have a dirty mind and I'm pretty sure if sexting was a job I would be the Richard Branson of that world (I would be so rich) not to blow my own horn 🙈 but take this advice, use it to your advantage, hopefully it will work and make you more creative in your sexual pursuits !

So firstly... the golden rule... I DON'T recommend that you sext someone you met five minutes ago or you just matched with online... it may come of as a little abrupt/forward/creepy...make sure you've been 'talking' for a while or had sex in real life but hey if thats what your about then you go right ahead, I know I've done that before and I'm sure they'll reply with a...

Anywho... once you've found someone you have had sex with (or someone you want to have sex with)... You SHOULD tell your partner/match in sext what you want/liked in real life, start small and only sexting things you're actually comfortable doing in real life. Extreme fantasies are great and all, but when you put that on the table, you're implying that you wanna give it a try. Don't forget to indulge them in THEIR fantasies too, but again only things your comfortable with. I would recommend starting small with a few playful 😏 thrown here and there for good measure... and then, when you're feeling comfortable, just go for it...

DON'T send naked pictures, if you do... DON'T send it with your face in it *facepalm* - Nothing is private these days, no matter how much you trust the person and dont even start me on snapchat. However if you are abiding by the key rule of 'only sending sexts to your partner that you have had sex with in real life'. Then they should probably know what you look like...right?.. so it shouldn't really be needed but that doesn't mean you cant use some of the following tips to remind them of how hot you are! Now for the most contested rule.. I say DO use imagery 😉 ... its the perfect way to imply what you want without saying a thing, plus it gets their mind spinning!

So here are three ways to do just that, and get what you want while doing it..

1. EMOJIS FOR THE 🔞

The Ultimate basic sexting tool...emojis! They are a great visual representation of what you would normally write, but simpler and with more undertones 'I'm so horny right now' without the abruptness... here are some ways you could incorporate it...

the staples 😏 😉 😜 🙈 🙊 use these to imply you want to talk business... but that you're still cute and if their not into it you can get out without too much trouble... then when your ready....

head for him 👄 🍆 💦 or 😮 🍌 💦or 🌬 🌭 💦 plus 🍒, 🌯, 🍭 for extra effect...

or head for her 😛 🌮 💦 or 👅 🍑 💦 or 😛 🌸 💦 plus 🐱, 🐚, 🍦 for extra effect ...

🤔 as long as you include a 💦 emoji I think you're on the right track...

Or maybe you prefer something more to the point ... 👉👌☝️✌️🤘🖖

Or maybe you want them to get a little handsy or you do... 🍑 👋, 🍒 👋, ✊ 🍆 💦

Or maybe with the ... boobs🍈 🍈 👐🏼 or 🍊 🍊 or 🍅 🍅 - sizing depends what you've got, I like the melons, because 'melons' 😏

For when its getting hotter... 🔥 🌶 🔥 🌶 🔥

Or maybe you want to incorporate your toys? ♒️🌵♒️

Or incorporate a location? 🚿 🛋 🛏 🚪 🛎

Or the big finish? 💥 🎊 🎉 🍾 💦

Get creative, I'm sure your partner will thank you for it 😏

2. BITMOJIS

Now these things are fantastic, they have been around a while, but I think they are very under appreciated because the bonus to these is that you can build your own avatar. This means all those sexts now have you in them. Bitmoji's come in a handy keyboard just like emojis so you can access them from your phone and add them to texts, which is pretty necessary for sexting... but they have pages of bitmojis that now have you in them.. plus pro tip: you can also use them in snapchat if you are feeling so inclined! Here are some examples...

and here are some for the more 'discerning' and 'obscure' tastes...or if you want to go a little crazy...

3. GIF's

Ah the best has been saved till last!So when I found out there was a whole keyboard for it, I had to have it - mainly not for the sexting... but I soon learnt that it is fabulous for that too!

The world is your oyster! There are hundreds of thousands of options and theres a search option! So you can 'google' whatever you want Now I haven't picked the most explicit/graphic GIFs on the internet for you to scroll through and believe me they definitely exist.... you can search those yourself... let me give you a hint - you can make a GIF out of anything.. ANYTHING... good luck!